best free psychic advice that I can give my clients is to trust
their own intuition.Thi covers all areas of life from career to
relationships and yet it is something that many people find difficult.
Over the last several years I have conducted thousands of readings
for people from every part of the world, from all walks of life.
Today psychic readings are more popular than ever, in fact it seems
that when the economy takes a down turn psychic readings become
more sought after. But why would someone ask for a psychic advice
in the first place? What kind of information is provided in a reading
that cannot be found with other methods?
In my experience the majority of people asking for a psychic reading
have some intuitive ability of their own which they have not learned
to trust or develop. In many cases these clients have intuitive
feelings about a subject already and they seek validation of their
own instinctual feelings. Let's take for example a person looking
for work who has just interviewed for a new position. They might
ask if they will be offered the job or not. This person will already
have their own intuitive sense regarding the question and they turn
to a psychic for validation of their own intuitive abilities.
This need or desire for intuitive validation is the main reason
that people seek psychic advice. And it applies to almost all of
the questions asked in a psychic reading, from questions about relationships
and health to jobs and finances. Many people might believe that
a psychic is simply telling a client what he or she wants to hear.
Nothing could be farther from the truth. In fact I tell my clients
up-front that my answers may not be what they wish to hear. I should
point out that in every psychic reading I have ever conducted that
was considered by the client to be "spot on" my own intuitive senses
and those of the client have been found to match.
About 80 percent of my clients contact me within a month of receiving
their readings and tell me how accurate the readings were and this
is regardless of whether the answers were positive or negative ones.
The validation of intuition is the main reason for people to seek
psychic advice, there are others such as seeking a missing person
or locating lost objects. For the most part however intuitive validation
is the primary motivator. The question remains as to why many people
seek this validation. In my opinion it is because they do not trust
their own psychic abilities. They have been trained not to trust
their instincts. They have been raised in an environment where psychic
abilities are scoffed at and ridiculed. In addition to this intuitive
abilities seem to have decreased in many people in a society where
our survival does not usually rely on them.
When we are young children our psychic abilities are at their strongest,
in recent articles I have explained how this ties in with primal
instinct and survival. As children we do not question the fact that
psychic abilities exist and we do not possess the vocabulary to
properly describe these abilities. We take them at face value and
are surprised when our parents express concern over them.
a child exhibits psychic abilities and behaviors the usual reaction
from parents is negative or at least one of passivity. Typically
the parent insists that such abilities do not exist and instructs
the child to behave and believe differently than it is naturally
inclined to. In some cases the parent takes an attitude of indifference
and ignores the intuitive ability of the child altogether. In some
extreme cases the parent seeks psychiatric help for the child and
the child may even be medicated or institutionalized.
in general is reluctant to accept psychic ability as a natural function
of the human mind. Religious, cultural, and contemporary philosophical
biases combine to create an environment which views psychic ability
as an aberration. It is no wonder that many people are reluctant
to discuss their own intuitive abilities let alone examine them
in detail or learn to develop them to their fullest potential.
with an environment which is negatively biased against the acceptance
of psychic abilities most children learn to suppress their own instinctual
skills. They learn to adapt the attitudes of the status quo. And
in so doing perpetuate the well established societal tendency to
view psychic abilities as fantasy or abnormal no matter how misinformed
the view may be. Psychic ability is real and it is a natural human
ability. It is not magical or even mysterious. It is an ability
that developed early in human history and helped to ensure the survival
of the species.
Faced with a society that for the most part is biased against the
existence of psychic abilities (regardless of its prevalence in
popular culture) how is it possible to learn to accept and even
nurture our own intuitive senses? Fifty years ago cigarette smoking
was a socially acceptable behavior. Smoking was allowed on planes,
in restaurants and little thought was given to the health effects
of smoking on children within the home. It was only within the last
twenty years that public opinion and laws regarding the habit of
smoking began to change. This came about through the education of
the public at large which caused a gradual change in the general
attitude towards public smoking. A similar level of public education
would be required to change conceptions regarding psychic abilities.
I find it difficult to imagine billions of dollars ever being spent
in defense of psychic development. I have no doubt that through
venues like this one and others that the attitudes towards psychic
abilities will change, it may be a very slow process but in time
the public at large will view intuitive abilities as a natural phenomenon.